In case you haven’t yet noticed, I’m a New Yorker through and through. I was born in Brooklyn, I went to college and university in Upstate New York and now I’m back home: living in Manhattan. I’ll be honest, I miss driving my car daily. These days, she just sits in a garage. However, it is evenings like this past Wednesday that serve as a tangible reminder as to what I love about this city; what keeps bringing me back; and why, no matter how long or how far I move or spend time away from here, it will always be my home. (Hint: I’m hoping that I can convince a certain someone that we should move somewhere outside of the immediate city so that we can purchase a home … a pied-a-terre for purposes of dual residency will hopefully follow!)
On Monday, I was fortunate to win tickets to attend NYC’s first NotWedding event ever! For those of you who have never heard of such a event, here is a direct quote from the website. “The Not Wedding is a bridal show alternative in the form of a big, fake wedding.”Wedding guests” are brides-to-be who enjoy an emotional ceremony, A tasty dinner and a dance-party reception while truly experiencing the wedding vendors in action.”
This was a fun reprieve from my usual Wednesday night *festivities*. The informal dress code was cocktail-casual, the people there were young and fun, the music made me want to tear up the dance floor and best of all, it was completely free for me and my guest!
Free food that was tasty, comforting and offered variety?

Clockwise from top left:
pancetta & leek tartlets
pesto panko chicken with sun dried tomato aioli
fontina, wild mushroom and caramelized onion brioche bites
red wine braised short rib skewers with polenta cakes
Check!
Complimentary sparkling wine sponsored by Ferrari and fabulous decor?

I just love that centerpiece! I bet that could easily be a DIY project for a more cost-effective price point.
Double check! Look at those green charger plates. Talk about a great pop of color!
A versatile cover band and an equally awesome DJ that kept everyone’s shoulders shimmying?! A photo booth (Having never experienced a photo booth, I am officially a fan.) and a swag bag???

Ferrari swag bag
Yes, yes, and yes again! Thank you, NotWedding events – I had a lovely time!
On another note: for all you local and destination betrothed readers … it is such a great feeling to be able to support one’s local community. These vendors are often able and willing to work with pretty much any budget out there. So, if you’re so inclined – help these vendors out, y’all!